Imagine that you have a huge garden and that you are the only one responsible for taking care of it, in the garden the plants represent your life, let’s take a good look at your garden and we will find your family, your work, your partner and everything you love and long for. Now let’s ask ourselves
Are the plants well cared for? Do they have flowers? Do you like its smell and its color?
Remember that plants do not always give flowers in the place we want or are the color that we imagine! But knowing this, how are you taking care of your plants?
In the garden there are also seeds, those dreams that we long for so much and the care of this new plant will represent new actions that are aimed at making it grow and flourish.
But perhaps there is a plant to which you have dedicated more time and effort where the weed has even emerged, the one that you try to start or remove every time it appears, but even with all the work done it seems to continue growing more and more around the plant that you care with great interest.
Has it happened to you in your garden?
Weeds resemble our problems and difficulties that appear in daily life and all that this represents, such as sadness, fear, guilt, shame, or hatred.
Have you tried to get rid of them like you have with the grass?
But for sure days later the grass appears, even after uprooting it.
You had also noticed that perhaps you have neglected other plants for working all day on the weed that appears in the one that you love so much, it has worn you out that it has not even given you time to take care of the others. How do you see your garden now? Are there any withered or forgotten plants?
What if weeds help your plant to flourish and grow? What would you think of the weed now?
You have also been impatient plucking that plant that has not grown as you expected, its color was not what you expected so much, and you have not been able to see it grow anymore, but if the gardener starts from “rennet” and sows another seed, he will never see the plant grow and Your life will only revolve around sowing seeds without experiencing every moment of growth.
Would you be willing to take care of the rest of the plants knowing that the weed will be there? Or that the plant may take time to grow and maybe it is not the color or size you expected?
One more option is to take care of the plants, with what they offer for you at every moment they have life in your garden.
Remember only you can take care of your plants, only you own your garden, no one else can.
Do not forget the psychological support that is provided in each Assisted Reproduction treatment, go and receive specialized attention. If you have doubts related to this metaphor, go to the psychological care area.